Oct 6

Today I got a positive response from one of those unlikeable students you're always telling yourself you have to work harder to reach. This particular student unfortunately fits the description of a typical "bully" -- overweight, tall, shoves other students, not particularly agreeable, doesn't do his work, etc. But I always tell my students these are the ones who need us the most, so I had better practice what I preach. Yesterday I told him that I had meant to mention last week before I got sick that he did a great job on his essay from that week, had a good attitude and got right down to writing, which is not an easy task for him. He actually seemed pleased, and for the first time called me over by name today. He even said goodbye to me by name yesterday. This doesn't mean it's permanent, but sometimes I'm amazed at how little it takes. He also showed an interest in work for one of the first times, and showed me that he was on task and that he had completed some of his assignments. I certainly shouldn't take full responsibility for this turn-around in behavior, but why not?